Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Friends After Marriage

All the married women in my family told me that once you get married, your female friendships don't mean what they used to.

I denied it but now I know they were right. How can I be close to my girl friends when I can't share all the intimate details of my life anymore? Nor do I want to.

J is my best friend now and I tell everything to him and I have no desire to share the personal parts of our lives with my friends. It just wouldn't be fair to him and it would diminish the deep intimacy that we share.