Lack of confidence or biased opinion?

"You are more than just what you do. I know you are cabable of a lot more" - J re: my job

I wish he was right and I was capable of more but I just don't think I am.

Reminder

Never work with family or friends.

Learn how to say no.

Weekends of the Newlyweds

This is the conversation I have most Monday mornings.

Work colleague: How was you weekend?
me: it was great!
Work colleague: What did you get up to?
me: nothing much... just some housework...

When I was a teenager, I would never dream of saying something like that for fear of sounding like a nerdy loser. Now I don't care because I know what I really did on the weekend.